Unexpected Treasures
Some of the most profound experiences of my life started with something very small, such as a thought, idea, experience, or a chance meeting. In particular, meeting an elderly woman in need of a visitor, evolved into a deep and lasting friendship. Much as a worn pathway on a hike can lead to unexpected views, flora, or even a chance sighting of a treasure in the natural world, so too can people bring many gifts into our lives.
While in college at CSU Chico, I took it upon myself to volunteer some time reading to a legally blind woman. This woman and I became friends, and I call her my adopted grandmother. Over many years, she and I shared many hours together reading, shopping, and going to theater and musical events. I came to appreciate her wisdom, and her joy in the simple things of life. Even though she was legally blind, she managed to have a positive attitude, and lived life to the fullest. From my adopted grandmother I learned to slow down a bit, and take time for others. Her joy in life stemmed from a deep inner balance, seeing things in their proper perspective. She taught me not to get caught up in the small, petty and inconsequential things of daily life, but to develop a more omniscient view on events. She also taught me to be more reflective throughout the day, and to take my religious beliefs seriously. My adopted grandmother never complained about anything. This was exceptional to me, as I know that she had her aches and pains.
I lost my adopted grandmother over twelve years ago, and yet her memory is held deep within my spirit. As a nursing student at CSU Chico, I learned more practical wisdom from her than I could have learned from any textbook. My debt of gratitude to her knows no bounds. In life, there are many unexpected treasures awaiting us, whether it be a person, idea or experience. Sometimes even very negative experiences hold within them a wealth of wisdom. These gems light up our path through life, and dispel any darkness.
~Kathy~
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